By BEO Lifestyle
Six months ago, I was tired of feeling like my money disappeared the moment it came in. I wasnât recklessâbut I wasnât in control either. Every payday felt like a reset button, and every month ended with guilt, overdraft alerts, and zero savings.
Fast forward six months, and Iâve saved over ÂŁ5,000âwithout a raise, a second job, or extreme couponing.
Hereâs exactly how I did itâand how you can too.

đ§ First, I Had to Change My Mindset
Before we get into the numbers, let me be honest: no budgeting app, spreadsheet, or trick works unless your mindset shifts first.
I stopped telling myself:
- âIâm just bad with money.â
- âI deserve to treat myselfâIâve had a rough week.â
- âSaving is for people who make more than I do.â
Instead, I started asking:
- âWhat do I want my money to do for me?â
- âIf I donât change now, what will life look like a year from today?â
This wasnât about restrictionâit was about taking control.
đ¸ The Budgeting System That Changed Everything
I tried several budgeting methodsâenvelope system, zero-based, percentage plansâbut what actually worked was a hybrid version I now call:
The 70/20/10 Flex Budget
Itâs incredibly simple, yet powerful.
â Hereâs how it works:
| % of Income | Category | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| 70% | Needs + Lifestyle | Bills, groceries, fuel, essentials, and fun |
| 20% | Savings | Emergency fund, sinking funds, investments |
| 10% | Giving / Debt payoff | Tithing, charity, or paying off debt |
đ Step-by-Step Breakdown of What I Did:
1. Automated My Savings First
I opened a separate savings account with no app access or card and set a standing order for 20% of my salary to go there on payday.
đĄ Tip: Treat savings like a billânon-negotiable.
2. Created a Realistic Spending Plan
I didnât eliminate coffee or date nights. Instead, I gave myself a âfun moneyâ cap per week. I used a cash-stuffing system to visually limit my spendingâif the envelope was empty, I was done.
đŹ âFun doesnât have to equal broke.â
3. Tracked Every Penny (for 30 Days)
For one month, I wrote down every single expense, no matter how small. It was annoyingâbut eye-opening. I learned that my âlittle spendsâ added up to over ÂŁ300 monthly!
đ˛ I used the free version of the app Emma to track and categorize my spending.
4. Used Sinking Funds
Instead of panicking when birthdays or car MOTs came around, I started sinking fundsâsmall, monthly contributions for future expenses.
Examples:
- Car repairs: ÂŁ30/month
- Christmas: ÂŁ50/month
- Kids’ clothes: ÂŁ20/month
Suddenly, surprises werenât emergencies.
5. Cut What Didnât Add Value
I cancelled:
- A gym membership I didnât use
- A food subscription I didnât love
- Two streaming services we rarely watched
I replaced them with free YouTube workouts, meal prep, and family movie nights.
đ§ Minimalism isnât about deprivationâitâs about alignment.
đ The Results
In 6 months:
- I saved ÂŁ5,027
- Paid off one lingering credit card
- Felt peace for the first time in a long time
More than the money, it gave me confidence, freedom, and clarity.
đ ď¸ Want to Try It?
To help you start your own money makeover, Iâve created a Free Budgeting Starter Kit with:
- A printable budget template
- Sinking fund tracker
- Weekly spending log
đĽ Click here to grab yours now! Download the Budgeting Template, Weekly Spending log
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⨠Final Thoughts
You donât need to earn moreâyou need to be more intentional.
You donât need to cut everythingâyou need to choose wisely.
You donât need to be perfectâyou need to begin.
If I can save ÂŁ5,000 in 6 months with this system, you can too.
